All Equals: Dispelling the Myth of Being “Better Than” Others

From a young age, we are socialized to believe in hierarchies: that some individuals or groups of people are simply “better than” others. Whether it’s based on race, gender, class, or other factors, this way of thinking can lead to discrimination, prejudice, and inequality. However, by dispelling this myth of superiority and embracing the idea that we are all equals, we can create a more just and equitable society. In this article, we will explore the dangers of the “better than” mindset, the benefits of equality, and ways to cultivate a worldview that recognizes and celebrates our shared humanity.

The Dangers of the “Better Than” Mindset

The “better than” mindset is rooted in the belief that certain groups of people are inherently superior to others. This leads to a range of negative outcomes, such as prejudice, discrimination, and exclusion. It also perpetuates power imbalances and reinforces systems of inequality.

When we believe that we are better than others, we may unconsciously engage in behavior that reinforces this belief. We may dismiss others’ ideas, talk over them in conversations, or marginalize their experiences. This kind of behavior can create division and conflict, making it more difficult to work towards a more just and equitable society.

The Benefits of Equality

Embracing the principle of equality, on the other hand, offers a range of benefits. When we recognize that all individuals have inherent worth and dignity, regardless of their background or circumstances, we create a society that values diversity and promotes inclusion.

Equality also creates a sense of community and solidarity. When we see others as equals, we are more likely to work together towards shared goals and to support one another through difficult times. This fosters a sense of belonging and connection, which can improve our overall well-being.

Additionally, embracing equality can lead to greater innovation and creativity. When individuals from diverse backgrounds are valued and encouraged to share their perspectives, it can lead to more robust problem-solving and decision-making.

Cultivating a Worldview of Equality

Cultivating a worldview of equality requires acknowledging and challenging the biases and assumptions we hold. Here are some ways to begin embracing equality:

Recognize Your Privilege

One way to cultivate a worldview of equality is to recognize your own privilege. Consider the advantages you have that others may not; this could be related to race, gender, class, or other factors. Acknowledge that these advantages are not earned but rather granted based on systems of inequality. By recognizing your privilege, you can begin to take steps to counteract it.

Listen to Marginalized Voices

Another way to embrace equality is to listen to marginalized voices. Seek out and listen to individuals who come from different backgrounds than yourself. This could include reading books by authors of different races or genders, attending events focused on diversity and inclusion, or forming relationships with individuals outside of your usual social circles.

Challenge Stereotypes and Biases

Challenge the stereotypes and biases you hold. Pay attention to when you make assumptions about others and reflect on where those assumptions come from. Seek out information and perspectives that challenge your preconceived notions, and be open to changing your views based on new information.

Practice Empathy and Compassion

Practice empathy and compassion towards others. This involves putting yourself in someone else’s shoes and understanding their experiences and perspectives. It also means approaching others with kindness and understanding, even if you disagree with them.

Take Action for Equality

Finally, taking action for equality is key to creating a more just and equitable society. This can involve supporting organizations that work towards equality, speaking out against discrimination and prejudice, and advocating for policies that promote inclusion and fairness.


The myth of being “better than” others is a dangerous and damaging mindset that reinforces systems of inequality. However, by embracing the principle of equality, we can create a more just and equitable society. This requires acknowledging our own biases and privileges, listening to marginalized voices, challenging stereotypes and biases, practicing empathy and compassion, and taking action for equality. Let us continually strive towards creating a world where we are all seen as equals, deserving of respect, dignity, and justice.


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